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All it takes (in the UK) is for a woman to claim, without proof or witness, that her man is violent and BOOM he is suddenly painted as an outcast from his own home! I watched her stand in court and lie until she faked a faint.... then her new boyfriend picked her up! Yes, you saw that right.

This new boyfriend was why she accused my son of assault, got him arrested and thrown out of his home on a freezing February night in 2016. I had to drive across country, from Bristol to pick him up with one bin liner of tatty clothes and a silent frozen stunned expression. She was cool about it, having gone out shopping that morning, leaving my son looking after the 4 little ones. He had the baby in a body sling and 3 tots around his feet when the police suddenly arrived and arrested him. She returned to the house as soon as he was gone and we later heard that the boyfriend moved in within days.

I have been hoping we see my grandchildren for six years so far.... they won't recognise us now! We see photos of them on Facebook and all of them are too skinny for my liking. Their mum will have them vaccinated because she always obeys social services or authorities. She is terrified that the kids will be taken into care if she does not. One of the things that my son was strict about was NO VACCINES of any sort. As soon as she got rid of him, she would have taken them for their multiple jabs.....

I tried to get access but she is terrified of me too. Apparently my rights as a grandmother are not worth a light.

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Sep 5, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

😥

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Been there, seen that, done it. Over 10 years of legal battles & walked away with nothing. Far too easy to make false allegations with no recourse for telling such lies. My parents, like you Frances, had been cut off from my sons. I worried about the moral standards my boys would be raised in. Her new boyfriend wanted to play daddy to my sons whilst he abandoned his own 2 daughters. I firmly believe that karma will come get these people. Best wishes to you Frances, hope you are well? Missing you from social media x

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I wonder about the moral standards too. I worry that the kids have been told lies about their Dad and are believing that he is a violent man! They were all so very young, I doubt the youngest will remember him at all and have been twisted to resent him. We could not bear the idea of endless battles in court - I don't envy you that agony at all!

Now that I am de-platformed from Facebook I rely on others to gather some nuggets of info from her page so that we can, at least, see how they are doing.

You know where to find me now Brian! Thanks for your supportive comments here! Much love, as ever, Fran xx

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This is so very poignant and heart-rending...

And it reverberates for me, as I relate to your son's troubles ... The vulnerable are so easily hurt.

When I stand back, I often wonder just what this life is all about... so much suffering for so many.

I'm torn between trying to fight for my parents, or fight for my country, or for Earth, or... Or not fighting at all? I want to fight...

I'm going to take a few now and send Heart Vibes to your son, Fran! And to you. xo xo xo

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I think you should fight for YOU. You are the most neglected out of everything you listed. You need to build your happiness and NOW.

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Thanks for that. xo xo

Duty first, I think. But if I CAN'T take care of my folks, then I will move on.

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I gave up my Valhalla, my Avalon in Spain to come back to this hell hole UK because I thought my son, ex-husband and father all needed me. They didn't really need me. I DID NOT recover from the loss of the most beautiful independence and joy I had ever had.

I regret not putting myself first.

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I'm sorry, and I do see the parallels. I'm trying to figure out my thing. I'll make a decision soon.

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Whatever you decide I support. It is your conscience and sometimes nobody knows how it ticks but us.... fingers crossed it all leads to sunny days and happy twilight years for your parents.

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Thanks, babe.

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

So sad yet beautifully written.

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Thank you for sharing - parallels my exists very closely...and that's why Jesus came ( Jn 10:10 )

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🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

🙏🏼

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BEAUTIFUL I feel for Dan and his kids. My Brother went through the same 3 kids and only one speaks to him now. Sad World. But as said in Dune LONG LIVE THE FIGHTERS.

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I hope that the kids have our rebellious genes..... eventually they may try to find their dad. That would be the happiest day of his life.

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The two daughters are screwed like their mum brainwashed go through men like days of the week. Ben the son my nephew different story. His mum wanted him to work tills at tescos. John urged him to do better. He applied for a job at a high end carpenters with uni training and pasted full time work 3 grand a week and blade smithing at the weekend which I taught him and he taught himself and now he surpasses me. Top lad. He thinks like me.

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Atta boy Dave! Maybe the girls will finally find a good man to tame them.... that is the best way to undo the mother's negative influence.

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

ive heard this type of story so often and it hurts my soul, its the reason ive not had a serious relationship in many years. women wonder why men dont date any more...

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My son won't even look....

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

i wouldnt call myself a MGTOW but im pretty much there myself

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So am I.... seriously! I hated feminism since Germaine Greer wrote the Female Eunuch. I love the men in my life and am sick of the way the women have treated them.

Too many gold diggers and liars for my liking!

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

this new generation of twenty somethings all seem hugely narcissistic to me, glad im getting old

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That hurts.

One day, this is going to blow up. I want to see it. What happens after is not as interesting to me. I want to see the massive wake up to this Computer Aided Shoah.

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All it takes (in the UK) is for a woman to claim, without proof or witness, that her man is violent and BOOM he is suddenly painted as an outcast from his own home! I watched her stand in court and lie until she faked a faint.... then her new boyfriend picked her up! Yes, you saw that right.

This new boyfriend was why she accused my son of assault, got him arrested and thrown out of his home on a freezing February night in 2016. I had to drive across country, from Bristol to pick him up with one bin liner of tatty clothes and a silent frozen stunned expression. She was cool about it, having gone out shopping that morning, leaving my son looking after the 4 little ones. He had the baby in a body sling and 3 tots around his feet when the police suddenly arrived and arrested him. She returned to the house as soon as he was gone and we later heard that the boyfriend moved in within days.

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Aug 30, 2022·edited Aug 31, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

It's pretty much the same in Australia. In some respect even worse

since the "social services" staff in their training are indoctrinated with

enormous bias and sometimes lead unsure and confused women

to take steps plainly not in their interest. It is all planned. Surely

we know that, social engineering implementation. That, of course,

not to discard the fact that there are just really bad people out

there. Decades ago they couldn't "flourish" in society, being minority.

These days they got their support and powers from "the system".

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Raw and poignantly expressed. I truly hope there will be heart/mind/soul healing miracles to come for your son and his family.💚

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I have been hoping so for six years so far.... they won't recognise us now! We see photos of them on Facebook and all of them are too skinny for my liking. She will have them vaccinated because she always obeys social services or authorities. She is terrified that the kids will be taken into care if she does not. One of the things that my son was strict about was NO VACCINES of any sort. As soon as she got rid of him, she would have taken them for their multiple jabs.....

I tried to get access but she is terrified of me too. Apparently my rights as a grandmother are not worth a light.

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Ugh. Life altering rock and a hard place you're in. Fear is one powerfully evil, controlling mofo to fight.

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Yep! The young woman was brought up in a Children's Home and various foster homes. She has been so thoroughly indoctrinated it is scary. We tried to give her a backbone but she prefers to be a jelly. The new boyfriend is ex forces.... obedience freak too, by all accounts! He has a reliable pension from the army cos he was discharged injured. She seems happy with him. More secure I guess.

My son was in her way....

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

It's been truly alarming for those of us who see [really SEE] to witness just how many people [including friends/family members] who will give over their liberty and autonomy for a 'sense' of false security delivered by [Trojan horse] death and tyranny in plain sight. :\

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Beautiful 🥰 written

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Beautiful and filled with Love.

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He will not see my poem because he does not come to Substack, preferring to work at coding and crypto currency when he is online. It doesn't matter though. I have sent my request out to the universe and it is heard. That is enough for me. xx

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So brief a glow, burnt so intensely low, yet for a while, it seemed as though, All Heaven Danced, within it’s flame, and glory walked, with sweet content, within it's guiding

light……. this is Love.

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Aug 30, 2022·edited Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Leslie, Thank you.

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Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Talk about painting a picture with words...simply beautiful 🛐

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Aug 30, 2022·edited Aug 30, 2022Liked by Frances Leader

Francis poem would be nice set to Pan flute, cello and harp.

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Thank you! I am touched that you liked it enough to comment here. xx

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