FEMALE ORGASM - SO TABOO & MISUNDERSTOOD
Listen to two men trying to figure out what is the use of female orgasm!
Chris Williamson interviews David Puts, a Professor of Anthropology at Penn State University whose research focuses on the evolution and development of human sexuality and sex differences. The blurb on the video comments:
"Apparently women orgasm."
These guys really don’t know much about this subject, but we will bear with them as they introduce it and demonstrate that they think entirely from a male perspective.
Patience ladies….. they go on:
“Why they do it [orgasm] however, has been a mystery for a long time.
They don't need to in order to get pregnant.
And sometimes they don't do it at all, for ages.
So what use is the female orgasm, and what predicts the sort of partner who'll make it happen?”
I did say ‘patience ladies’…. chill.
Let’s give these guys a chance to say their piece….
“Expect to learn if the female orgasm is just a gatekeeper for oxytocin, whether more dominant male faces predicted earlier orgasm, why men competed for women through contests rather than sexual selection, how male-male aggression, not female selection drove the evolved differences between men and women, whether you can tell a person's personality from their voice pitch and much more...” yada, yada….. 🙄
Yep… these beta males have introduced their discussion with this obfuscation and blatant ignorance of the issues. They HAVE to pad out their lack of knowledge with unmitigated unrelated sciencey stuff because they can’t admit that everything they think they know is completely irrelevant!
Wait until you HEAR THE VIDEO CHAT!
You might reach for the rolling pin!
I took to my keyboard with fingers SMOKING!
So….. are you ladies steaming with rage or disgust? Did you notice that the subject of female orgasm got swamped with “the science” and the macho crap? Did you stop listening after the first 20 minutes like I did? No worries, the rest of the discussion is utterly off topic.
Do you think our two beta males were squirming because they realised that they should have ASKED AN EFFIN WOMAN to join them……??
HEAVEN HELP US!
I had to give these two young bucks some pointers (as you may imagine!) Are you ready for the blast? OK HERE YA GO!
I commented on the You Tube video:
“What about the recent scientific discovery that an alkaline vagina is conducive to facilitating easy swimming for sperm? The clear fluid of female vaginal orgasm is copious and alkaline, it definitely floods inwards and outwards. It must assist sperm to arrive at the egg as smoothly as possible. The orgasms can happen very frequently! It depends on the skill of the man with his foreplay techniques and you two assuming that "it is not necessary" is robbing the women of your lives of their birth right, i.e., copious orgasms.
So many men have no idea how to induce orgasms in their partners! Also you don't mention that there are two different female orgasms which can happen simultaneously or individually. The clitoral orgasm results in tremendous pulsing sensations but the vaginal flooding orgasm actually results in an ecstatic trancelike state, especially if it develops into multiples. It results in shaking, vibrating and weakness upon standing.
Two guys discussing my orgasms is a ludicrous experience!
Neither of you have got a clue about the subject!
Why didn't you think to ask some ladies about what "use" it has.....
Honestly, you are embarrassing yourselves here.”
Hi Frances, thanks for posting something relevant about sexuality, even if its relevance is in the form of pointing out the absurd.
Here is something: I don't think that most men orgasm, which is why female orgasm is so mysterious. Most as nearly no men experience the kind of rolling multiple orgasm I've seen in women, or the very wide diversity of types of orgasm that I've seen in women.
I think that most men have a physiological response that is more accurately described as ejaculation, but not the full spectrum emotional experience of actual orgasm. This makes female orgasm even more mysterious. When men experience an actual orgasm, full-bodied, emotional and with waves of energy, they know there is a difference. It takes time, and a map of the territory not included in grade school sex education.
There are many other questions that the people in white lab coats seem to not understand so well, such as why women tend to have breasts far larger than is necessary for lactation; why women 'call out' during sex, essentially advertising their experience to housemates, neighbors and the universe; the nature of sperm competition (nothing could be more opposite than monogamy); why there is a clitoris in the universe, which seems to have just one purpose; and this thing that I've seen evolve over the course of my relatively short, 41-year sexual career, female ejaculation.
This is seen to be so controversial that my close friend the late Betty Dodson (1929-2020, author of Sex for One), did not believe that it even happened.
It happens. And by the way — I've never seen men involved, except for my close proximity. The women I've seen do this had total ownership of the experience. It is emotionally complex, sexually interesting and overall truly beautiful — speaking from an emotional perspective as well as sexual.
All in all, I think that the persistent state of mystery looming over female sexuality is really about all of sexuality, which you rarely see discussed in anything but a ridiculous study like this, all of which remind me of Gary Larson's "The Far Side" parodies of wonky scientists trying to figure out the obvious, or sniffing chemicals from their beakers.
Oh Frances...you have the best Headlines...I almost tweaked my neck when I saw it 😁
Great identification of these betaboys...one is led to think their manpon was inserted incorrectly and irritated them into this dysphoric convo.
I keep wondering when younger women will stand in mass to tell these men and trans-interlopers (men in women's locker rooms and spaces) to have a pint of STFU and go get stuffed!!
It seems they are happy to accept the mantra, that to be an accomplished, strong and just as good as a man...woman, you have to be a guy, saying he is a girl...the new girl power.
Now, I will admit, prior to the age of 20, my total knowledge base of the female orgasm, came from palyboy, penthouse and porn videos...which I must say, set quite the high bar, for that first encounter...how the hell do you get her to scream like that and spin around like an airport beacon???
However, past 20, I read some physiology material and books on human sexuality in college and then started actually asking partners, about it and what needed to be done, in order for them to have one.
It was very unexpected by them and enlightening for me.
This whole woke, nihilistic movement, we have been taken over by, is geared toward societal destruction...1001 blocks at a time, simultaneously. Rip down truths, faith, norms and then sexuality and you are basically soaking the human dye, out of human beings.
Great piece. I hope it moves women to get out there and lambast these soyboys, so they can crawl back under their rocks.
“We shall abolish the orgasm. Our neurologists are at work upon it now.”
― George Orwell, 1984